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7 Things Lucky People Do That You Don’t

If you can’t find a four-leaf clover or magic charm, you can always create your own serendipity. Steal these secrets from people who seem naturally prone to good fortune.

They’re people magnets

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The more people you know, the more chances for a friend to come through with a lucky break. In one study, Richard Wiseman, professor of psychology and author of The Luck Factor, showed participants a list of last names and asked them if they were on a first-name basis with at least one person with each name. Of the subjects who considered themselves lucky, half were able to tick off eight or more names. Only a quarter of the participants in the unlucky group could. “Lucky people talk to lots of people, attract people to them, and keep in touch,” Wiseman told Health.com. “These habits result in a ‘network of luck,’ creating the potential for fortuitous connections.”Need some help with mingling with others? Here are some tips for engaging small talk that’s not awkward.

They trust their gut instinct

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In one study, British researchers found that our gut instincts are often credible and stem from real physical reactions in our body, such as increased heart rate and sweat. Participants in the study were asked to try to win a card game they had never played before. The game was designed to have no clear strategy, but instead to encourage players to follow their hunches. While playing, each participant wore a heart rate monitor. Changes in players’ heart rates affected how quickly they learned to make the best choices during the game, which signaled to researchers that what happens in our body guides our choices. Here’s how to better tap into your intuition for a happier life.

They don’t push their luck

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In Max Gunther’s book How to Get Lucky, he illustrates the possible outcomes of luck pushing with a coin-toss metaphor. “If you toss [a coin] 1,024 times, the odds are there will be one long run in which heads comes up nine times in a row. But there will be 32 short runs in which heads comes up four times in a row,” he says. “Which is the way to bet? On the short runs, of course.” Although you might come to regret cutting a lucky streak short, it’s best to remain rational, and not overly optimistic. These amazing true stories will change how you think about luck.

They break routines and welcome the unexpected

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Aim to read a book a week, listen to a podcast on the way to work, or try out a new hobby—anything that will open your eyes to new lines of thinking and new people. Start with these nine books that can change your life.

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